Will my brain ever function *normal* again?

 Here's a training video on the cPTSD brain function

watch now :)

Living with a cPTSD Brain


When you bounce from hypervigilant to absent - dissociated and disconnected.


You feel like a *different* person each moment. That sense of cohesion + continuity is lost.


There are no words to describe how *broken* + *fragmented* you feel.


The only constant is the heavy painful toxic shame + guilt. We carry around 24/7.


You feel alien + fundamentally different to others.



Download your flashcards

This is free :) the cards contain questions on typical cPTSD struggles along with suggestions & tips. hope you find them useful :)

Hey! I'm Tanja :)

If your thoughts are a toxic turmoil before you take a break by dissociating, you need some strategies to get those neurones dancing with tranquillity.

It will create a ripple effect for you reaching also people around you.

You've tried the lonely dance. Let's tackle this together. Your life is not over yet. You're worthy of a better future.

My cPTSD brain and I are a little crazy about research. The sciency stuff perfectly combined with a Piccolo (coffee). Currently a chocolate loving PhD student.

Click here to learn more about me!


Hope they serve you well :)

Set Healthy Boundaries

Exercises that helped me become more confident & stand up for myself when delcaring my boundaries...

Download your FREE copy of my little workbook NOW :) 

Feeling so Alone

This FREE training webinar is for people who are Masters at Isolating.

3 simple tips for people who rather stay home alone, because it's "easier"... socialising after complex trauma can be so exhausting

Struggling with Sleep

Download your free booklet NOW :)

My top 9 habits that helped me

fall asleep faster & stay asleep longer


Local cPTSD Support Group

Every first Sunday of the month we have our get-together at the Kawana Library  from 15:00 to 16:30 click here for a video to see the car park and room we are in :) ...

send me an email to [email protected] if you like more information

FB group: cPTSD & thriving

A space where we can inspire, encourage, support and uplift each other, where any questions about any mental health issue can be asked and all topics discussed. (No trauma story sharing)

I'll be live streaming in this group every Monday 6 am (AEST - Brisbane).

Work with me

Sick of that inner toxic turmoil and ready to experience some tranquillity and joy?

if that's you :)

click here to book a FREE 30 min discovery call to discuss your vision and to work out if we are good fit to work together :)

What people say ...

"Tanja's videos are so accessible! Friendly, yet informative and based on research. In a world where affordable and accessible mental health advice is not always readily available, they provide helpful information. In addition, there is a Facebook support group and a website for extra help and information.
Tanja shares things that she has found helpful on her own journey and it's great information for anyone affected by interpersonal trauma."


"Living with CPTSD is a challenge and one that can leave you feeling like you have to battle the condition alone. Not knowing anybody else that struggled with similar symptoms and issues lead me to the Internet for information about the condition. It was there that I found Tanja’s Facebook group and YouTube information videos.

I really value these connections because I can connect with others in a safe environment and not feel so isolated.

Tanja’s dedication in posting thoughts,relaxing photos and encouraging statements are brilliant through them I am reminded about things like self compassion, gratitude and each step forward no matter how small is progress  and connect on many other issues, some I’m aware of, and others I have to think about.

The YouTube videos give me connection on a more personal level and relief that I’m not alone in dealing with the issues that arise in my daily journey. I am very thankful for her dedication to help others and her willingness to share her journey along the way."


Have a question for me? Please book a FREE 15 min call with me now :) 

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There's a new video ready for you every week. Here are a couple of my popular videos :) May they serve you well


Any inquiries, feedback or suggestions please use this email address [email protected]

Have you ever questioned your purpose or the purpose of living?

Life after complex trauma can seem meaningless... here is an in-between stepping stone I used to help me find my purpose and meaning in living...

click here to find out more...

Have you ever thought that things will never get any better for you?

All those intrusive flashbacks & nightmares, that loneliness & shame... do you feel stuck?

click here to learn more about neuroplasticity and what that could mean for you...


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